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Wed 20 Mar, 2019 11:59 pm
100% straight old man suddenly has an intense desire for gay oral sex plus. Am I losing it in my old years, the truth coming out or what? Happily married for 3rd time and 35 years this time and want no issues or problems here. Have had a fear of this for many decades and now suddenly it is here bugging the living sh!t out of me. How can I even do it? Where or where do I find cooperative partner. Just walk up to a guy that looks like might be interested and say, "Hey, I have an issue. I have this driving, intense desire and you look like you could help me." That ought to get the crap beat out of me, right. I have heard a lot of retail guys go this way so thought about going to dept store to "try on" something. But that seems crazy. Completely lost, please help, seriously. Strong, real advice needed on how to satisfy this drive
. Did this way back when an adolescent and really enjoyed it but that was many decades ago and one just didn't. Thought I could go to him since he first convinced me but he went nuts and turned on me, so. LOST! But am very hungry beyond what you might think. I think about it nearly all the time and I know if I continue it will get me in trouble I do not want. PLEASE HELP.
As far as meeting people goes, I'm sure there are gay dating sites out there, but I couldn't tell you what they are. A web search will probably point you in the right direction though.
But note: Your wife isn't going to like it very much if you cheat on her. For advice on how to deal with your desires without ruining your marriage, you'll need someone wiser than me.
I'm sure those wiser people will be along sometime in the next day or so and give you better advice than I can muster.
@GREY BEARD,
Talk to your wife before you do anything. She deserves the truth.
Thing is, this desire is strictly sexual, not person centered at all. Is that weird? Talk to my wife? I am trying to be 100% honest as I hate lying, and cheating. My first wife cheated for all but about 4 or 5 of the 21 years we were together ended up as a nympho callgirl. Fired from a great job for screwing in the office during working hours. If after or before work, no issue but during work hours, the boss, who already had had her virgin butt, said no way. Weird! There were three guys in the small office and she did everyone of them every day either orally, or whatever.
No, until I get the satisfaction of one time and then know if I want more, I ain't saying nothing. Yes, I know how wrong that is. but if I say something, get the one time and hate it, it is over 100%, and our marriage is ruined. I just need that sausage at least once, well maybe twice to know which is best or not at all. Make any sense? I cannot put into words how strong this is. All it takes is one second of a mental image and I am gone, weak-kneed and more wanting it so badly I cannot stand it.
@GREY BEARD,
So your need to experiment trumps your wife's wishes, commitment, loyalty, and love.
Got it.
@GREY BEARD,
Out of curiosity - how old are you?
I, too, wondered your age.
You’re not the first ole coot to find out they are bi, so settle down.
Are you able to tell your wife that you have these urges?
What’s your sex life with her now?
She’s either going to hit you with a frying pan or tell you to dont bother her, and do whatever you feel you need to do, discreetly.
Your marriage now might be in the “companion stage” so you may be able to indulge your fantasy.
@cherrie,
Why, does it matter. Will that change anything? How old are you?
@PUNKEY,
hmm, first old coot. Wow, that's nice! I had thought this was a legit site. but from some of the answers, it does not appear to be that way. I might have been wrong coming here.
@GREY BEARD,
So you can come here and tell us all about your fantasies of gay sex, and give us the totally unnecessary details of your first wife's cheating, but asking you your actual age is out of bounds. I guess that's just too personal.
No, it wont change anything, I was just curious.
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