@ktooss,
ktooss wrote:
everyone knows that all people hate calling scary adults as i am part of that majority oh well
Is there an adult, or a good friend, who can help you? The rules vary greatly by state... the only people who might know the answer are parents of older teenagers from MI (this is an international state).
Jespah is right. Take every opportunity to learn to interact with adults, get support where you need it. This is a pretty important life skill. Be patient with yourself, but it is good for you to work on overcoming this fear.