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Wed 6 Jun, 2018 11:46 am
This girl I just met at her work seems to really like me I only get to see her 1 hour twice a week now for three weeks first time we met she tells me very excitedly about herself like her favorite music and music artist her activities after work she told me of this one restaurant she likes and says to me if I don’t go there she won’t stop until I eat there. Second time I see her we are into ourselves talking about our likes and dislikes and find out we like same things. When I can’t find anything else to say she keeps the conversation going bringing up all kinds of things . As I’m sitting there she at on point touches my back for few seconds then later she put her hand on my shoulder. I walked over later just to test her out when she was with another person and touched her on the arm keeper it there just long enough for I made the excuse that I need to get a water that was on the other side of her she looked at me smiled and let me bye. Later when she came back I apologize to her if I bothered her in anyway she said ohhh no it’s ok no problem. Later she ask me what I was doing after I left there and I told her then she says well after I left that she was going to her appointment to study her exams then she ask me if I’ve seen any movies lately she said she doesn’t watch many but she kinda into watching greys anatomy on Netflix at her apartment. I told her I was going for a coffee after I leave she says to me yes you go get your coffee you deserve your coffee . Not to sure why she would say it this way and what she meant. But third time I see her we talk as usual she ask me again if I’ve been to that restaurant she likes I tell her no she again tells me she won’t stop telling me until I go there. Still not sure why she is so wanting me to go there. So at this point I’m still not sure if she just being nice and just flirting I wanted to Say something to her and I think she could see it for I just stood there like a deer in the head lights then as I turned to leave she says to me Nathan I’ll be thinking about you. I said thanks for it cought me off guard not sure if she wanted me to think about her or what she wanted me to think. She was gone for three weeks I thought she left for good . She did give me something to think about even if she didn’t mean it this way . So one day I find her again at her work she didn’t know I was there when she looked and say me she looked little started and blushed a little and said said hi Nathan I told her that well your back I thought and wasn’t coming back, she says to me Nathan did u ever eat at the restaurant she likes I said No for I don’t like eating alone , she almost fell she covered her mouth and laughed then said well u could have went thru the drive thru I said I know that then said well I’m still not going to stop telling you until you go there. So the reason I just don’t ask her out or give her my number is for one thing I’m still not sure if I’m reading her right like she’s interested in me and another reason I’m sure she doesn’t just give me her number is it’s at her work and she could get into trouble and loose her job there’s a line she can’t cross with clients there. So it just goes back and forth if I ask her or give her my number then the ball in her court she can pursue this outside if she wants to . But I need some to tell me x what they read here that she is wanting me to make a move or is she just flirting.
@Nate Mach,
Eat at the dang restaurant. Better yet, ask her to join you.