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Wed 30 May, 2018 07:51 pm
I am in a relationship for a year.I love her and she does love me as far as she tells me. Last month She told me that she has liking for a colleague who happens to be female. She wants to experience a sexual relationship with her. She asked me if she could join us in bed but I am very hesitant.
There are questions in my mind :
What if she likes her and she leaves me.
I have never been in a 3sum in my life,is it awkward to show my feelings even if I feel jealous.
Should I refuse to meet her friend in bed
I asked her if she was in a bisexual relationship before which she denied.
Dilemma and confusion ,Any Help please
Ultimately the only person that can decide/know that is your girlfriend. I would imagine that there is not so much that you can do to help her decide. My guess would be is that you have to decide how you feel about that if she is bi? You might be cool with it or you may not that will help you with your answer as to what to do or not!
@stevefin35,
Do what feels best for you. Want to do it? Then do so. Don't? Then don't.
Will having a threesome change your relationship? Probably. Will not having one change it? Maybe.