My foreign girlfriend wants us to settle down in her country.

she wants to live and raise her family in the country she was born

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Why would your desires be more important than hers?

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What would be the benefit to her in living where you want to?

Well, if she came to your country and you met her in your country and the relationship has continued in your country, I would think that it would be normal to expect that when you got married you would live in your country.

The only reason I would expect to move would be if she or her family has some great setup in her country where your opportunities and income would be much greater than if you stayed where you are. And even then you moving away to her country would not be a sure thing.

One thing that it might be worth checking on would be what is accepted by the immigration service where you wish to live. They would have to recognize the marriage (if it was not from that country) & if necessary a translation. That may make a difference.