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Marraige Counselor says I

 
 
Reply Mon 5 Feb, 2018 09:15 am
Should win back my wife who has filed for divorce but she is attending counseling with me. LMHT tells me that I need to do whatever it takes to show her I have changed. Also, even though I have emotiuons and am emotional over this- I must set these aside and work to prove to her whatever. Wife is constantly judging me and looking for screw up from me
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Reply Mon 5 Feb, 2018 09:23 am
@Dutch123,
Really??? I didn't think that good marriage counselors ever did this this. Is this a religious counselor?

There is no way you can rebuild a strong marriage if you are tying to "prove to her" anything. If you feel that your wife is judging you, a good counselor would address this... this isn't helpful in a marriage. Who wants to be in a marriage where you always feel the pressure to prove yourself. That is torture.

I got a divorce. It was difficult to go through, but it is far better to be divorced than to be in a marriage that isn't working. I have never regretted it.

What is LMHT?


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Reply Mon 5 Feb, 2018 03:14 pm
Your counselor probably told you to do things that will help your wife fall back in love with you. Remember when you first dated? That kind of behavior.

What happened to make her file for divorce? How did she fall out of love?

The fact that she's going to counseling with you is a good sign.
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