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Tue 30 Jan, 2018 06:29 pm
I have a long time gf and I have noticed the coldness in her and one day I found out that he was talking to her ex behind my back for a good reason. She bought a cake for her ex's grandma and after that they have started to think about being partners in business. I have asked my partner for answers like why this and that. She said it would benefit us in our wedding and our life. Day after day I feel devastated, I felt useless to the point of suicide and now I am just sucking it all up. She never lied to me before and she keeps saying she's telling the truth. I mean why would she still insist on marrying me if she's going to cheat kind of mindset of mine. Now, I am in so much pain.
What should I do? Should I continue my suicidal attempt or just treat my mindset that is very bad and just try to straighten it up? I'm in need of help, please.
@bystanderoflife,
Nobody here is going to encourage you to commit suicide.
You need a doctor's care. Regardless of what is going on in your personal life, if you are feeling that suicide is a solution then you need a doctor, period.
I am assuming you feel that this 'business partnersip' with her ex is more about romance than business. Has she explained exactly HOW this will all work? And how it will benefit your marriage?
In any case, you must decide that you are going to be OK if you don't marry this woman.
You have to muster up the courage to face the future - and realize that you deserve better than being treated like this.