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Indian Diaries of worldly and streetsmart travelers

 
 
ossobuco
 
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Reply Thu 1 Sep, 2005 09:01 am
On saris, I have a architect friend who remodeled a house for himself and his family in a spare style that still had warmth of materials. The best damn doors I think I've seen... faced the side courtyard. They were quite wide, probably four feet, and quite tall, and pivoted on a center pin (or was it centered, I can't remember). Anyway, they were glass, with a thick wood band around the glass, and covered a long wall.
Curtains, what for curtains? His wife is indian, and saris made perfect sense. I remember them as a light lime green..
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sozobe
 
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Reply Thu 1 Sep, 2005 09:09 am
Ooooh...

Maybe 8 years ago, before this was a thing, we visited friends in London who had sari curtains, absolutely gorgeous. They'd bought them for a song in India. About 5 years ago I bought 10 "vintage" (used) saris from a wholesaler, have been doing all kinds of things with them since. The better ones have been curtains, not-so-nice ones have been cut up for various uses (borders on skirts, purses, etc., etc.)

I adore saris (so long as they're silk, not as fond of the polyester ones), don't think I could ever have too many.
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dagmaraka
 
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Reply Thu 1 Sep, 2005 09:10 am
yes, satin my sari is. (can you tell i'm tired?). i will use it - wouldn't want to cut it up for skirts just yet, you never know when i might be hit with a sudden urge to wear sari. and then, in that precise moment, i'll have one!
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sozobe
 
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Reply Thu 1 Sep, 2005 09:13 am
What I've done with ones I didn't want to cut up but wanted to use was use them as hmmm drapes... not sure of the term. When you have two posts sticking out over a window and you wind a long length of fabric around that, letting it fall a bit in the middle and then drape down on either side. Saris are about the perfect length for that.
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dagmaraka
 
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Reply Thu 1 Sep, 2005 09:24 am
ah, yes. that can be done! i have a new room to decorate in vienna!
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brahmin
 
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Reply Thu 1 Sep, 2005 11:30 am
dagmaraka wrote:
Indian Government puts up amusing signs alongside the road: "If married, divorce speed", "Go slow, somebody's waiting for you at home", "where drink competes with drive, you lose", "don't gossip, let him drive" - and other such jewels.


didnt you see my favourites ??

"go slow on my curves" ??


dang i forgot the rest....Sad
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McTag
 
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Reply Thu 1 Sep, 2005 01:44 pm
Vintage garments?

Whose sari now? ?? ???
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littlek
 
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Reply Thu 1 Sep, 2005 05:21 pm
Ah, back in Cochin! Lovely.
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sakhi
 
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Reply Thu 1 Sep, 2005 09:53 pm
Dag,

You'll look gorgeous in a sari...wear it (though i dont know for what occasion). Did you like the sari?..I've never seen a satin sari..might be a little difficult to manage...Silks are the best - as sozobe says. Cotton and chiffons are good too. There are lots of websites that teach you how to wear a sari Smile.

And as always, wonderful accounts...Smile
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the prince
 
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Reply Fri 2 Sep, 2005 12:50 am
A sari is one of the sexiest garments a woman can wear....

chin - remember Sridevi in Mr India song - all those chiffon saris ???
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sakhi
 
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Reply Fri 2 Sep, 2005 01:27 am
The sea-green sari was the best...I saw that only once actually...think i was a schoolgirl then..gawking, wishing i'll grow up to look like that...Very Happy
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the prince
 
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Reply Fri 2 Sep, 2005 01:37 am
More recently Sushmita Sen in "Main Hoon Na"....
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dagmaraka
 
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Reply Fri 2 Sep, 2005 02:59 am
ah yes. by 'satin' i mean 'silk'. it's a regular sari.

hold your hats, i am writing up the last installment of my diary, then i'll leave you alone for awhile...
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nimh
 
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Reply Fri 2 Sep, 2005 04:17 am
Wow, such posts from Dag! I'm printing them out, so I can read 'em in the coffeehouse, they look lovely.

But ack, is every India traveller now really going to start his own thread? Bugger, thats hard to keep track of ... I like things central, myself.

Guess its different folks, different strokes on that one!
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dagmaraka
 
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Reply Fri 2 Sep, 2005 04:28 am
no! i didn't kick anyone out. i don't mind other worldly and street-smart travelers posting here. it's not my threat, i only started it.

for those who don't yet know: Here is my picture website. There are (many many) pics from this trip, as well as the previous trip, from India and all over everywhere I've been to lately: Dag's pictures
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dagmaraka
 
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Reply Fri 2 Sep, 2005 08:09 am
Sunday August 21st, 2005
Rising bright and early - Nidhin comes to wake us up at 6:30 (do they ever sleep over here?). Me, Jasmine, and David decided to go to the church today with the students. It sounds like a joke: A heathen, a Sikh, and a Jew head out to church… But it isn't. They all go to church here together - Christians, Muslims, Hindus… It's the same God anyway, they say. We get into a little bus that huffs and puffs up the rocky dirt road. The church is stunning. Small simple white church in the valley of tea plantations, palm trees, and flowers of all colors and shapes, under a turquoise sky and a kind warm sun.

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View from in front of the church
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Tea plantations on the hillsides

People here are farmers. They're much darker than people in the North. Jesus, however, is whitest of whites, with pale blue eyes in every single painting. Funny, if you ask me. The sermon is in Malayalam. They sing a lot, which is great. We sit on the floor, sometimes kneel, sometimes stand up. Sometimes try to stand up, wriggling about awkwardly. Decent workout anyway. First twenty minutes is fun. Then it gets a bit old. Half an hour in, I start scrutinizing every single painting on the walls. And on the ceiling. And the floor. From paintings I move on to garments. Thank god for the saris - they are so colorful with many patterns. How long is this sermon anyway? One hour in, I start counting sheep for fun. Why did I want to come to church, anyone remembers? After forever the priest starts handing out the little wafers, whatever they are called in Catholic. Jasmine and I run for the door. We walk around the church, meet the priest himself. Back on the bus Nidhin gets teased by all the boys, who all giggle and cast quick glances towards me. Eeenteresting. It's a good thing I don't understand.
We start teaching the second batch today. These kids are even quicker and sharper, and we are getting to be even more stellar as trainers. It rules to have a good program lined up and then see it happen as it should and better. I am developing quite a fan club here. Girls Aswati and Ansa bring Anoop who apparently likes me very much, but is too shy to tell me. "Ma'am, he won't stop talking about you." Anoop is purple. Oh well, that's what blondedness and blue-eyededness gets you in India. Wherever I move, swarms of them move with me. I highly recommend this to anyone whose self esteem is suffering a little. Tonight we join the entire Shanti crowd for dinner. They want to meet with us, even though they have a tough exam tomorrow. We bring in the faculty and mediate and agreement between students and faculty about the future of the Shanti program. Faculty promises to devote one month of internships to non-governmental work, and even count working for Shanti as a non-credit course. They will get training certificates and the school will send out a special letter of recommendation to all the job placements for students working with Shanti. Kids are overjoyed. Nidhin gets us real plates and sits next to me. More pushing and shoving as they make fun of him.
Jasmine and Hillel are packing up, they are leaving early in the morning. Hillel to New Delhi where we'll join him a day later, Jasmine is going home, for she's leaving to go to a Sikh camp in British Columbia, of all places. We have another five minutes of Before Sunset in bed. I'm thinking I'll never finish this movie in my life.
Suddenly we hear a yell: "Jaasmiiiine! Daaaaashaaaaaaa!" That would be David, returning into his room. We sprint over there. "There's this white thing over there. Look! I saw it crawling on the window, then it jumped on Hillel's suitcase and there it's sitting right there, on his shirt!" We look, quite skeptically at first. What the hell is that? It's white, it looks almost as a jelly-fish, but how the hell would it get into the midst of a rain forest. It doesn't move, probably startled by the light. Being extremely brave, I come closer. I see six or eight legs - it is a giant spider, size of a tarantula! But white. It's an albino tarantula! We shriek and run out of the room. What do we do? Do we dare to capture it? David doesn't, I'm more than hesitant. But then if we don't, what will it do? It can kill us all overnight. We look around. There is an empty wastebasket that might do the trick, provided that the albino tarantula doesn't move. We make a battle plan. It involves the wastebasket and Jasmine. She's Indian by birth, and least frightened. We all approach the tarantula cautiously. It's still there, pretending to be dead or something. Jasmine hurls the wastebasket over the monster. It's trapped! We're alive! We win! Now we have to get it away from Hillel's shirt somehow. My turn. Wearily I move the basket, dreading the moment when the mini Odula starts scuttling about. It doesn't. I notice it leaves small white traces as I move it with the basket. Am I injuring the thing? The traces look very much like…pieces of….napkin or something… I have a flashback to this morning. Three women came this morning to our guesthouse to clean. They were washing windows, among other things. With white paper towels that, when damp, can look a lot like albino tarantulas. Especially if you happen to be a hysterical Westerner. I take the basket off and grab the thing with my hand. David shrieks. I explain what just happened. "There can be a spider inside!" he maintains. Well, I can't argue with that, but none emerged even after a close scrutiny. Not among the bravest moments in my life, but certainly among the funniest. Funny how the mind works. It's white, it's scary, it must be an albino tarantula, but of course. What could possibly be more logical?

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dagmaraka
 
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Reply Fri 2 Sep, 2005 08:25 am
Monday August 22nd, 2005The next day Jasmine and Hillel leave early. We teach the other batch alone, just me and David. I am exhausted and feeling a sore throat coming. Yet it's going well, although in the afternoon I have to delve into resources of energy that I didn't know I had and I make no sense even to myself. It's still going great, that's how terrific our program is. In the session on perceptions, David and I act out the tarantula episode from last night. Kids are rolling in laughter, getting a huge kick out of it. We do a great job acting it out, too. Must be the endorphins flooding into the system as the program comes to a close. When we're done, we are surrounded by our entourages. Girls talk to David about further training or somesuch, I start making photo CDs for the boyz.

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Ansa, Aswati, me, and Anoop

I am running out of juice on my computer- have to go get the cord in the room. Being the street-smart worldly traveler that I am, I decide to go alone up the hill to the guesthouse. I'll be right back, I say. It's pitch dark. At first it's OK, as there is some leftover light from a lamp in the campus, then it turns completely black. Ever tried to climb a hill at night? Not that easy. I stumble about, losing the path every now and then. Two guys that live under the guesthouse spot me. They must think I am absolutely out of my mind. They shine a flashlight down the hill for me. I make it up, and grab the cord. Front gate is locked - that means I have to go down the same way. Wee! Serves me right, next time I will try to be a brave outdoor cat, I will think twice. I only fall about four or five times, unfortunately it rained earlier today. When I say rained, I mean rained. We're at the tail end of the monsoon season. When it rains, it pours. I come down looking like Nikki Lauda after a winning Formula 1 race. Perhaps not feeling quite as victorious. It's hot, so I dry rather quickly and soon enough I look almost normal again. Nidhin comes with Arun and they claim us for dinner. We bid farewell to the disappointed crowds, and happily retreat with the two of them into the faculty cafeteria, where we can rest for a bit. David is on a roll with his inquisitive questions on all things delicate. But nobody minds. Good times. We take pictures with the chef, who, according to David, has the best smile on Earth. The chef teases Nidhin again, who slaps him on his head. That flatters the worldly and street-smart traveler silly. Ah, the simple pleasures of life.
When we get back to the house, I finally finish the darn movie, not having enough energy to pack. Why bother anyway, it's going to be impossible to pack prudently at this point anyway. Might as well stuff everything in using brute animal force at the very last moment in the morning.

23rd August, 2005
The alarm clock goes off at 4am. It's pitch dark still. I turn on the light - no light. No electricity, in fact. Wunderbar. How am I going to shower and pack in the dark? I saw a candle somewhere, where was it? I rack my brain, walk around the kitchen and living room area like a blind man without a dog. Or a woman, for that matter. Yes, the little cupboard in the corner, that's where it was. I break the candle in half, so that David can have a light, too. I play with the matches, trying to get the broken half to light up. After a good amount of time, the sucker is finally lit. I'm burstingly proud how well I did in extreme conditions. Electricity comes back on right after that. Naturally. I shower and perform another stuff-the-suitcase ritual dance. Nidhin and Arun come. They are coming with us to Vagamon, for today is the beginning of their five day holiday. We part with the gorgeous boys there and proceed to the airport.

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Nidhin, Arun, and I

I can feel an onslaught of a flu or something coming. Tired, sore throat, bleary eyes. Curious about New Delhi though. We are heading for our big and famous conference on Partition that Umpakaf put together. Tomorrow will be the opening. Hillel is feeling grumpy about it, for it seems it will be way more academic then he wanted it to be, but at this point, we can only go with the flow. New Delhi seems like Washington D.C. to me. Certainly after Kolkata it does. It has many green parks, is rather clean (depends on one's comparative frame) and spatious, it has low official-looking buildings. And many many roundabouts. It's like a maze, I have no idea how to navigate through it. We are staying with Hillel's friend Sharon. She came to India as a Fulbright fellow - studying Indian dance. Then she stayed for another half a year, another year, two years, forever. She is one of the most famous of Indian traditional dancers, even though she's a Litvak from Detroit. Sharon lives in a colonial mansion on Barakhamba road. It's a three story house with majestic staircases, patios, balconies. Her living quarters are at the top, on the roof, sort of. There is a beautiful shaded area with sofas and pillows to read and take tea in, a breakfast alcove on the other side of the roof. Her and her daughter Tara's rooms (we met Tara in Bombay in February) are two wooden shacks on the side of the roof. There is also a kitchen and living room area. Sharon has beautiful original Indian artwork everywhere - large bronze statue, small statuettes everywhere, things hanging, standing, lying about. It has to be one of the coziest living arrangements in the world. David, Hillel, Sharon and I head out into town for dinner. Well, we are driven into town. Sharon has a driver, of course. She also has a cook, a maid and some other guys whose jobs I didn't determine. Restaurant took it's name from a thieves'market - chor bazaar - where trinkets of all sorts are sold. It's called Chor Bizaar and it's remarkable by it's collection of furniture and antiques of all varieties. Our table is a remodeled four post bed. All the chairs, plates, silverware in the restaurant are different. There are no two identical things - you won't even find two identical forks. Salad bar is an old car underneath a staircase that leads nowhere.

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Dining in a four post bed - Chor Bizaar

August 24th, 2005
In the morning Sharon takes me and David to the American school (elementary, middle, and high school) to see a South Indian dance performance. The school blows our mind. It's monstrously luxurious and high-tech. They have two or three libraries, swimming pool outside, two cafeterias, large new auditorium and hundreds of spoiled rotten kids. School is naturally fenced off and gated and guarded by security armed to their teeth. I bet that these kids are loaded into limos or buses after school and then transported into their gated residencies. This way they don't have to be in touch with real India out there at all. Performance is interesting, the dancer has a beautiful Southern Indian outfit. It's dedicated to Krishna's birthday, coming up in five days. She explains all her poses and symbolic of each move, even though it falls on the deaf ears of those vile teenagers. Govinda maduram, gopi maduram is one of the songs that remained stuck in my head ever since. Must find it somehow somewhere. It's a song about how beautiful Krishna and everything he touches and looks at is (maduram being beautiful, govinda being eyes, gopi being girls-dancers that Krishna hangs with in the hood).

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Me, Rohit and some of the participants - still laughing (BEFORE everybody got wasted)
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dagmaraka
 
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Reply Fri 2 Sep, 2005 09:42 am
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McTag
 
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Reply Fri 2 Sep, 2005 09:45 am
Dag you are such a lovely woman, in a sari or out of it.
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Region Philbis
 
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Reply Fri 2 Sep, 2005 11:36 am
awaiting the "out of it" photo Mr. Green

dag, i'm amazed at and impressed with people who travel a lot.
where do you find the energy to do it?
what's your secret?
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