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Thu 11 Jan, 2018 11:01 am
I been seeing this guy that I met 9 yrs ago for 6 months kinda steady... He receny became a full time single father of 2 girls 6 and 3 yo... And he has 2 other children 14 and 5 boys... Everytime I want to spend time is an issue..he leaves me hanging and then the next day sometimes he apologizes and says he fell asleep but I always have to initiate seeing him... He used to want to see me all the time now I feel like I'm a nuissance... I asked him. If we should just move on and now I'm afraid to hear the answer... I really thought that this time around after dating on and off for the last 9 yrs we had something going on... Sigh
@Prtoricanqueen,
I'd think you'd be pleased that his kids are a priority to him. Have you considered doing something to help him out? organizing an afternoon out with the kids, that sort of thing.
I tried but I feel like he doesn't want me completely in.. I tell him. I can come cook for you guys get the girls their snack get them their baths and when he gets home he has nothing to worry about... But I don't think he takes me serious.. Or doesn't want me in their life.. The kids life...
Who is helping him with the kids now?
@PUNKEY,
As far as I know the girls grandmother and his other child's mother whenever he can't find anyone else... He's always stressed and aggravated because there are things he wishes he could do and can't because of bia responsibilities... So he's not a very happy person inside altho he is always making jokes and smiling...