Can someone change their personality.

Learn to be happy with who you are. There are plenty of people who like persons who are quiet of nature.

You don't seem to have any difficulty posting numerous times on A2K. Your personality has come through loud and clear.

Why do you have such difficulty talking on-line with other people?
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I have anxiety talking to people I don't know. I have even more anxiety talking to someone I am interested in. I wonder if that makes sense ya.

I am still a quiet person even though I try to talk to people I don't know. I mean I get more quiet when I go out with a guy somewhere even if we have already email each other for awhile. Does anyone have any advice on this. Thanks.

It's sounds like you are a shy person and you want advice on how you can overcome your shyness.
Is that ultimately what you are asking?

That is what I want advice on. I don't know if I can not be as shy anymore. I think if I wasn't a as quiet person then maybe someone would be more interested to get to know me. Thanks.

Do you have any hobbies or interest?
Do you look people in the eye when you are talking to them?
Do you often walk around with your head down?
When and where do you feel happy and comfortable?

I like to read and draw anything I find interesting. I don't really have anymore hobby. Do you have any advice on how to find more interest. I just like to go to places in which there aren't that many people. I don't like being shy since I cant do things I want. I don't know how to make myself less shy around people. I am not sure what to do ya.

To make yourself less shy will take some time and practice. Take baby steps. Then over time you can expand more. The first baby steps I would suggest is to start greeting people with hello's and goodbye's.

Here are a few examples:
1. How is your day going?
2. How was your day?
3. How was your weekend?
4. Good morning John.
5. Good afternoon Lisa
6. Hi Barbara. How are you today?
7. Have a good day Bill
8. See you tomorrow Janet
9. Good night Julie.
10. I hope you're having a good day.
11. What you got planned this weekend?
12. What you doing this weekend?
13. What you got planned for tonight?
14. I like those shoes.
15. I like your new hairstyle.


Basic hello's and goodbye's is a way for you to build up your confidence when it comes to talking to people. There are no expectations or pressures of having long conversations. These are brief interactions. Try to practice this in your every day life. It could be the cashier at the grocery store. The cashier at the fast food restaurant. The clothing store at the mall. Your server at a restaurant. This is how you create small talk.