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Mon 8 Jan, 2018 07:57 pm
My husband is 42 and I am 45.We are married for 15 years and have two children
For the past year he has not been intimate with me.When I asked him he says he is tired from work and is getting old.I take great care in my appearance.There is no signs showing he is into porn or having an affair.He comes home and seldom talk to me and goes to bed early.In bed he never hug or kiss me and just roll to the other side of the bed and sleep. I tried to talk to him about this issue but he just keeps quiet.We sometimes end up arguing.He doesn t want to go counselling and also doesn t want a divorce.I feel lonely and lost.
@Berry72,
When was his last full check-up?
Would he go for counselling if he understood the survival of the marriage required it? would he be ok with you finding another sexual partner?
When did all this start? Illness, death in family or pet, job loss, sick, move, PSTD?
This is unacceptable. When you brought up counseling, what is his reason for not wanting to go?
Go without him. You are going to need the support and help in making a plan to handle this problem.
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