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Cjscott323
 
Reply Fri 8 Dec, 2017 07:23 am
Hi, I'm writing first of all my fault that i snooped through her phone and the only reason is because this past Sunday while relaxing on the couch "together" she comes out with (mind you she has been on her phone for hours now) I looked up "Jenn" her ex gf and she passed away and the reason im telling you is because I don't know why it's just Ben asked me about her. Well first if all her son doesn't think about anyone but himself.. so this morning I had the chance alone and I went through her phone and Facebook page. Only to find out she looked her up several times alone with her "sister" and their mutual friends.. she is done this with others too I believe, one friend she didn't actually has sex I guess but got off dry humping and blames the alcohol.. I have caught my wife in lies in regards to her always sending her lazy son money. Also her son says to me I'm the longest gf she has had as his mother is truly only attracted to black guys and that her last bf even though he was means and abusive his mother loved him. So don't be surprised if 1 day she leaves me for a guy.. ? Which is probably why she is always checking them out where ever we go?? I have caught her even looking over her shoulder at a guy while on vacation?? So I guess my question is even though she says she loves me, and is happy being my wife and our adventures should I worry she will cheat?
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Reply Fri 8 Dec, 2017 07:35 am
@Cjscott323,
You've caught her in lies before.

Decide whether you can live with those lies, or not. Talk to your girlfriend about your concerns.

And it might not be a bad idea to make some sort of a plan when it comes to her son and money. You can, possibly, create a bank account for him with some agreed-upon monthly amount in it as the maximum and then she deposits into it, up to the max during a month but no more. That way, it's above board and her son (maybe) will learn how to budget. It doesn't have to be a lot; I'm not suggesting you and her start paying his rent or anything. But if she slips him, say an average of $80/month then make it an even $100.

And if she goes over, then it's time for a nice chat again.

Oh, and stop snooping, not only if you want to keep her in your life but also if you want to keep anyone in your life. Snooping's just a bad idea all around.
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Reply Fri 8 Dec, 2017 11:02 am
I know I shouldn't snoop, but when she came out on btw I looked up my ex gf just for the he'll of it as she came across my mind? It kisses me off even though I didn't show it.. I am still bothered by it and want to know why after 4 years with me why she is o her mind ya know? I can't even have sex with her because I just don't want too. I have purposely been going to sleep early just to avoid it.. and her son is 19 with a baby and no job, his gf it is but he is always in need if cash and he sure her for child support that we already pay Sad he needs to get a job! I marrued this woman and now after a year of marriage in stressed about shall I still be here or just keeping trying to trust her and belief her when she says she loves me even though she I thinking about others?? I'm so tired of stress from trust. I don't think I'll ever get the truth..
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