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Getting over rebound advice!!

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Dlizette1
 
Reply Mon 4 Dec, 2017 11:44 am
Long story short, my fiance and I broke up. My son and I moved out, I was completely devestated. 2 months later, we decided to work things out, but he hit me with he was seeing someone else during our breakup. I know he didnt technically cheat, but it sure feels like it. Im doing everything I can to get over it but its so hard and really hurts. It makes me sick thinking that she was staying at our apartment...Any advice on how to get over the fact that he had a rebound? Thanks for listening! Smile
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jespah
 
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Reply Mon 4 Dec, 2017 11:47 am
@Dlizette1,
Try to frame it like his life before you met. He kissed other women, and probably bedded some as well, yes? Those women aren't on your radar, right?

As for her being in 'your apartment', she wasn't. She was in his apartment.

If it skeeves you out, buy new sheets.
ehBeth
 
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Reply Mon 4 Dec, 2017 11:51 am
@Dlizette1,
Is there a reason you have to move back in at this point?
Dlizette1
 
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Reply Mon 4 Dec, 2017 12:27 pm
@jespah,
Very true! I just have to get into that mentality, sooner than later I hope. Thanks for your reply!Smile
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Dlizette1
 
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Reply Mon 4 Dec, 2017 12:28 pm
@ehBeth,
Well, I waited about 2 months then moved back in. Maybe too soon :/
ehBeth
 
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Reply Mon 4 Dec, 2017 12:35 pm
@Dlizette1,
so ... two months after breaking up you started working it out and two months after than you moved back in?

seems too soon - especially given your concerns

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ehBeth
 
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Reply Mon 4 Dec, 2017 12:36 pm
@Dlizette1,
Are you guys attending pre-marital counselling to help you with the issues that originally caused you to break up as well as what has happened since? I highly recommend it.
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Mon 4 Dec, 2017 01:18 pm
What was the reason for the original breakup?

Maybe he wanted to get this girl out of his system, and he realized he made a mistake.

I do think the re-movein was too fast.

There were issues that needed to be addressed before you regrouped. There is the child to consider.

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