@musicportion,
Try 'the fault in our stars'. Problem is of course, this is a plot twist that you kind of don't see coming until it happens. I'm sorry that I ruined that for you, but you asked.
EDIT: You might want to further specify whether you want this to be contemporary or not. I think there might be some American civil war or World War I movies out there that have a situation like that (starstruck lovers, boy goes fight in the war, girl/wife stays at home, boyfriend dies). But given the age mentioned, I reckon it needs to be a high school sort of relationship?