@FoolRenee,
Unless you can verbalize what you want him to do or be , don't expext him to read your mind. He's been bad. He got caught. He now doesn't know what to do. (Pity him)
Join a gym TOGETHER.
Get hobby or do a project TOGETHER.
Travel TOGETHER.
Find out if you even like each other now.
But you have to allow him to prove he can change.