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Sat 18 Nov, 2017 07:13 am
Got married very young and been married 14 but have 2 very young girls. Well qualified but never worked because my in-laws needed me at home. He was never ever interested in sex as I was even from the very beginning though it was love marriage from his side. His sexual inclination has declined constantly.......has a lot of problems in between too as he would keep doubting my fidility...and I have had to convince him as to how faithful I have been. Of late things have got so worse...the house has become his lodge he doesn't eat at home and works very very long hours, we are like two strangers. The is absolutely no connection between us....be it emotional , physical or sexual intimace between us. He loves his phone and the game apps more than me . Have tried talking to him too about it again and again but ultimately it will leave me most of all emotionally drained. I don't want to waste my time waiting for him anymore. When he is not interested in me why should I have to put up with his ****. I want to have an affair which will at least fullfil my emotional needs rather than just being the house keeper and the child raiser. Not even thinking of divorce as I have invested a lot of time in this house to make it a home. What are others take......am I wrong .....what do I do
Counseling. Either go together or go alone. Make it clear that you are trying to save the marriage. Don't give him any absurd out that he "didn't know".
And try, at least a little, for the sake of your children if for no other reason.
But you don't have to stay forever and you don't have to give everything up to get things to work.
If your marriage ends then work together to coparent your children as well as you can.
Counseling.
You say he's not at home that much anyway. Why do you assume he'd even want the house?
Yes, go to counseling. Go alone even if he won't to get yourself prepared.
See a lawyer for a financial consultation.
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