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Advice on affair

 
 
Reply Wed 1 Nov, 2017 06:20 am
I recently discovered my parther/husband of 27 years was involved in an affair. It was with a nurse in a hospital where I was being cared for and still
go regularly. I confronted him, he has ended the affair and we are going to try and survive our marriage. He has told her but when an opportunity has arisen she’s made contact with him to rekindle. He has told her that he wants our marriage to work. She is a responsible person and I want to know if I should report her actions. I wasn’t in her direct care,she could access my records and she knew my circumstances and that I regularly attend the hospital
for treatment. I’ve never confronted her.





















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Reply Wed 1 Nov, 2017 10:51 am
@Carballo,
hmmm wanting to punish someone else for your husband cheating on you

I'd say it's a no go.

Focus on your husband and your marriage.

It is his responsibility to end the woman contacting him. If anyone reports her, it should be him, not you. But again, your husband was the one who cheated on you. She didn't cheat on you. She is not in a relationship with you.

Talk to your husband about this. He needs to know what you are considering.

Hopefully you are both in counselling, separately and together, to help you with all the feelings you need to work through.

Misdirected rage is as much a problem as anything else.
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