@Ladybug0524,
The sexting is a lot less important than the lying.
Go to counseling, either together or separately, and determine how you are both going to move forward. Your husband has promised reform before, and it hasn't worked. What else is he doing to show you it's not the same old, same old? Counseling can help him see why it's such a problem and it would be a step he could take which would demonstrate sincerity.