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Tue 24 Oct, 2017 07:07 pm
So I met this girl at a college party, she thought I was cute so I got her number. We went to a few other parties together and had a lot of fun and I’ve slept over at her place a couple times. Now it seams every time I text her to hangout or do something she’s busy. I haven’t hung out with her for just under two months, so I basically said “I got your number to hangout, not to just text you.” And she responded with a day we could hangout at her place. We text a lot and she initiates the conversations about 50% of the time. And I think she’s in to me, but I find myself having to really push her to hangout or to see her. I’m thinking she may be playing hard to get or I’m just being too pushy and she’s taking me for granted. Should I maybe stop texting her for a while and see if she initiates something? I kind of called her out over text and was maybe a bit harsh in hindsight. Heres the text convo.
Me: So I think you’ve been leading me on for sometime and don’t really wanna hangout. I’m gonna stop wasting my time.
Her: I’m really not trying to.
Me: Well you say we’re gonna hangout, and then you bail every time. And you ditched me at the hockey game.
Her: I had plans with my friends, after the game.
Me: I did too. But I just wanted to talk to you for a few minutes.
Her: oh ok
@matty145,
Hang out. So you just go over there, watch TV and screw?
How about asking her out and, you know, doing something with your clothes on for once?
Does "hangout" really mean sex?
So you are texting her just when you get horney?
@jespah,
Every time I ask her out or to do something she is either busy or bails. I've asked her way too many times and been way too available. I'm just gonna back off for a while I think.
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