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I don't know what to do..

 
 
Reply Thu 19 Oct, 2017 12:00 pm
Hello everyone.

I'm 20 years old and a male.

I'll get straight to the point. I get aroused when I look at porn (lesbian, girls, straight etc.), but now when I'm with girls, I don't. I don't know what has happened to me. I used to masturbate 3 times a day, didn't matter where I was or who I was with. Now I don't do it, because I don't get aroused anymore. I have only been with 1 girl, and I couldn't get aroused with her. Not because she wasn't attractive, trust me she was, but I just couldn't. When ever we had sex, I couldn't stop thinking about porn or masturbate whenever it was over, but I could masturbate while thinking of her, and now it tears me apart. I want to be "normal" again..

It is so embarssing to talk about this, but I really need to get help. If somebody want to make fun of this, go ahead, I can take it, but it's still not nice, you know. I want to have a normal relationship again, without the thought of masturbation or porn. I easily get aroused when I look at porn and with my right hand.

Anybody who can understand me? Anybody who knows what I'm going through? I just want help...
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Robert Gentel
 
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Reply Thu 19 Oct, 2017 12:23 pm
@Michael2435,
Well for one, if you were masturbating 3 times a day and watching a lot of porn you possibly have desensitized yourself to real-world sexual interaction. That's a thing. Porn is not reality it is fantasy, and excessive consumption of it has precisely this risk: that the real thing no longer is as interesting as the fantasy world. You might want to try giving it a long break and see if it changes anything for you.

Of course, I want to add the standard caveat that you can always seek medical help with either the mental or physiological aspects of arousal as there is limited help strangers can provide.
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centrox
 
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Reply Thu 19 Oct, 2017 01:20 pm
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You might want to try giving it a long break and see if it changes anything for you.

I would suggest masturbating no more often than once every two weeks, (and only then if you really can't help it) and keeping this up for three months.
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Michael2435
 
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Reply Sun 22 Oct, 2017 06:31 am
I am keeping myself away from porn, masturbation, and now trying to socialize more. I've just started to exercise again, so I hope I'm on the right track now. Is there mayne anything else I can do to improve my 'sexual mind'? Thank you both for your replies
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