Daughter's Birthday

Do you plan to have a future with this guy? or is it a fuckbuddy type of thing?

If there's a future with him, it will include his daughter. He's already let you know that. If you're not good with that, it's time for you to find a new boyfriend.

His child should come before you.

I was thinking of a future with him but it seems like his daughter's mother is trying her best to make things difficult for him and I really don't want to be apart or included in the drama. I told him his time with his daughter is his time and I shouldn't and don't want to be apart of that at all.

If you don't want to be part of his daughter's life, it is probably time for you to move on.

At least you are honest about that.

My BF's son thought he was going to drop off his 4 kids at grandpa's house every other weekend (ages 10 twins, 8 and 2 year old).

I told him - been there, done that years ago and he can cook and clean all weekend, but that's not how I want to spend my weekends.

Turns out he headed off that arrangement before it even happened. He does see the kids twice during the weekend anyway. .

Some guys have too much baggage. This might be the case in your situation.