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Loving my wife in menapause

 
 
Darien
 
Reply Sat 14 Oct, 2017 07:38 am
Love my wife deeply, but she doesn’t like to be touched below and doesn’t like her nipple touched until she is excited, lastly she doesn’t like oral sex, her words less is better. I feel I don’t do anything for her and she is amazing to me, is it normal for women to feel this way after menopause?
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jespah
 
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Reply Sat 14 Oct, 2017 10:04 am
@Darien,
Nope, but that doesn't necessary mean anything in particular is 'wrong'. Still, a medical workup can't hurt.
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Sat 14 Oct, 2017 10:18 am
@Darien,
Is this new behavior?

How old is she?

Why do you attribute these preferences to menopause?
Darien
 
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Reply Sat 14 Oct, 2017 10:45 am
@PUNKEY,
52, it’s new since menopause, too painful. Was wondering if this normal for most women and does it ever get any better without taking supliments? Just want her to enjoy my touch too.
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Sat 14 Oct, 2017 11:11 am
No, it's not "normal."

Insist on a complete physical. Go with her, if needed.

She is either in severe physical pain or is just not interested in sex anymore. She could have low libido, there's been major changes in the home or marriage OR there is something going on in the marriage where she has "lost that lovin' feelin.'

Find out. Insist on a complete physical. Go with her, if needed. 'If it's not physical, then it's off to a marriage counselor to see what's going on.
Darien
 
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Reply Sat 14 Oct, 2017 11:23 am
@PUNKEY,
She is very loving and willing to still have sex and we are active twice a week and it always ends with both of us satisfied, but she does not like my touch and I probably dwell too much, but I still think it’s a two way street and I want to feel my touch is special too, her excuses is that women just do t feel the same as men, I’m caring and want to please her
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