36 yr old boyfriend is havng serious health problems

We moved into our town home Feb.4 2017. Around June 6 a cable tech went into attic for install and obviously fell and left before notifying me. That night i spotted the ceiling broken. I called maintenance and cable compay. Within 2 weeks the whole section came down with insulation. My boyfriend was the one who cleaned it. Me and my daughter were not home when it fell. About a month later my kitten got sick and passed away.. By August we were having problems breathing. I was thinking it waa the heat from the ceiling being open. My botfriend had gotten up there and tacked a sheet. I emailed my manager and by the end of Aug they came and repaired it. My boyfriend was complaining that he couldnt breathe. Walking up the stairs was to much for him. Everytime he laid down he would jump up saying it felt like his throat was closing. One morning/afternnoon because i now sleep so much that i couldnt function and found him gone. He drove himself to the Er. He was admitted and admitted at least 4 other times following the first admission. Each time keeping him a week sometimes a few days longer.. Doctors diagnosed him with heart failure and pulmonary hypertension, sleep anea, and diabetes. They hazve no idea why this is happening to him. Around Sept 20 a doctor at the hospital asked if he had been exposed to mold. I said no. Without thinking of the ceiling or when his problem even started. Later that night i got home and started looking. I have no idea what mold looks like so i will show you what i have found. He is back in the hospital, so far its been 6/7 days. This time for cougjing up blood. And he just got over pneumonia. I told him to let the doctors know but the ones we have seen except one is sceptical and are finding it hard to believe mold is causing this.. I developed a skin rash on my hand. My doctor called it eczema. In 40 years i never had eczem one time. But ocording to the doctor I have eczema now. She did say that it could have been triggered by mold and a few other things.