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Thu 10 Aug, 2017 10:57 pm
Alright this is probably a stupid question and I'm pretty sure I already know the answer, but I would just like to get someone else's advice on the matter.. So I went out with a guy a couple nights ago for drinks. I felt like it went pretty well, we laughed and had good chemistry. I am a little shy when I first meet someone new, but I tried my best to open up that night. Anyway, long story short their was no text after the date on his end about meeting up ever again or just any text in general after the first date. I wondered if I should of shot him a text? But usually I hear from the guy at least by the next day. So when I didn't I assumed like anyone would that he wasn't interested, but the weird thing is he's still watching all my stories on Instagram and is continuing to like all my photos? So I just don't know if he's still interested? Or why he's even bothering to do that if he's not interested in me? Haha, I know this is ridiculous, but am I safe to assume he's just playing games with me at this point? What do you all think? Advice please!
@Savgirl24,
There's no harm in sending a text. Nothing clingy. Just a hi and not much more.
Then diary it for three days after that. No contact? Then cross him off your list. I am suggesting the text because some people just don't get the protocols of contact and dating, or he was busy or who the hell knows. Anyone with any sense will realize you're giving him one last shot. If he doesn't respond (and not by clicking Like on something, but actually texting you back or calling you), then he's blown that chance.
@jespah,
Alright I'm going to try that! Thanks for your advice. I just sent "How are you?" Keeping it basic. So we'll see how that goes.
@Savgirl24,
Excellent! Time to celebrate with pie or the adult beverage of your choice.
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