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Wed 19 Jul, 2017 04:06 am
I had an affair with a married man for 7 months. He did all the chasing in the beginning and went out if his way to get me interested. The affair ended when his w8fe found out. Now he has tried to blame me for everything and said I started everything and then got clingy and wanted him to leave his w8fe which is untrue. He has also blocked me from everything so I have no way to contact him. I am now toying with the idea of sending him a letter to his workplace. I d8bt want to send it to his home address as I have no desire to cause any problems with his wife. But I do feel the need to tell him what i think about his lying and bad treatment of me. I feel very used and disappointed. Does anyone think this is a good idea? I wouldn't expect a reply, it's more just to ge5 all this stuff out of my head as I don't think I will ever be able to see him in person to actually say any of it.
@Sparkletone,
Write a letter and then burn or delete it. Don't send it. No good can come of you sending it, but it might be a good catharsis to get the words down onto paper.
And then let it go.
His wife will figure out what kind of a jackass he is, sooner or later. And he certainly knows he's one. No need for you to speed that process along.