@glitterbag,
Glitterbag, I am really here for two reasons. To enjoy myself (after all this is for entertainment), and to push different points of view and be opposed so that I can understand my own beliefs better.
You are pushing a specific narrative; you seem to to believe that right is right and that wrong is wrong and that men oppress women. This is all fine and good. But I tend to push back on this this kind of absolutist narrative that refuses to accept that any other perspective has any validity. I push back because it provides a foil upon which I can push to test my own opinions.
This is enjoyable to me, and I find it valuable.
I don't really take it personally. You shouldn't either. If you aren't enjoying this, or finding that someone pushing on your ideas helps you to question your own beliefs... then I don't know why you are here. You are spending "a great deal of time" (as you say) doing something here. Able2know is a place to find people to disagree with. If you want a filter, so that you are only confronted with opinions with which you already agree... you should be on Facebook.
(BTW... If you take your previous post literally, you seem to be saying that your family can't entertain the idea that they 'might' be ignorant. I am pretty sure you didn't mean to say this. I was playing with you. If you can't see the humor... I am sorry.)