Has he gone too far?

I wouldn't worry about the porn so much as the swinger sites and sites with dateable women. After all, there is an overabundance of porn on the internet. If he's taking to dating sites to find porn because he can't find it on the worldwide web, then he's not doing it right.

So you're left with some conclusions that aren't so very nice, including that he was at least considering meeting at least one of these women. Plus, personally, I'd be freaking a bit if my husband was searching for female friends' pictures as a porn substitute, which your boyfriend may (I say may; the jury's still out) have been doing.

Either way, though, you're clearly not trusting of him. And he seems to be proving and justifying your suspicions.

So, why stay?

I trusted him 100 percent about a year ago before I found things for the first time. He swore it wouldn't happen again as he didn't want to lose me and here we are again. Only this time he's been on worse than porn. He has said it's all to look at the pictures for porn purposes but why u would go on a swinger site and dating for porn pictures Iv no idea. As for searching women he says he is just being nosey. Funny how it's all attractive women he is searching. The worst part is the lies. I asked him 4-5 times about it in which he denied until I shown him I had proof. And still says only thing he has done wrong is lied. Thanks for reply