Tue 30 May, 2017 08:22 am
My boyfriend and i recently broke up after about a year together because, as he put it, i wasn't respecting his need for alone time. I grew increasingly frustrated when, after we'd had a disagreement or argument he'd refuse to talk for a day or so,which is ok but he refused to discuss whatever issue it was later after we'd both calmed down. His refusal to communicate was a huge source of resentment to me and I ended up pushing him to talk to me about it . Ill admit, it did get out of hand and I did blow up his phone trying to explain what he was doing was damaging. To be honest, I wasn't very nice and as my anger grew, he dug his heels in even more and I got even more angrier with him.
I never called him names but I yelled, ranted,and I accused him of not caring.
My question is, why would he stay with his ex, who as I was told was a narcissist/borderline/crazy/ evil woman that emotionally and physically abused him and their kids for 8/years, but end it with me over something I believe could've been worked out? There really wasn't any other major problems with us
It's either my gut or my insecurities that is telling me that he is still in love with her.
@Neptunegrl,
Trust your gut. Humans have been fighting over mates for hundreds of thousands of years. We have good instincts on the matter.
Ok sounds like I'm the ex Karen he did thee exact same thing to me? He's narscict!! Omg run don't walk he will keep doing this to you and blame you make u apologize for the whole thing I treated him like a sweetheart we were madly in love first two years he wanted to spend every minute with me then I caught him with a guy? And the more I looked I found out he's bisexual porn addictied gets hookers men and women swinger etc!! Oh he puts on a amazing act all lies you have a bright future with me always complaining about the way indressed to much black so I bought all these sexy summer dresses he said it would change how he felt the more I changed the more he disrespected me it gets worse he wanted to see me a week ago wanted me to go all the way over there 2 hours go to laguana beach on a train and just to be a dick he said then go home ? He never says that to me I have money I'll get a hotel no I'm afraid of you? Omg!! I'm skinny 5'2 ok really ? He's been with this fat Mexican Elvira lately he lies all the time I knew to much he had to get rid of me I'm all screwed up over it along time abuse I got him a attorney everything u are being conned he only loves himself!!
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