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When did charities start getting so picky?

 
 
izzythepush
 
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Thu 25 May, 2017 12:41 am
@Linkat,
Dumps don't just do landfill, they recycle and reuse. At the worst it would end up as biofuel.
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ossobucotemp
 
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Thu 25 May, 2017 12:53 am
@Linkat,
Usable is the word of this discussion. My useable may be different than yours.
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centrox
 
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Thu 25 May, 2017 12:55 am
@Linkat,
Linkat wrote:
I understand that - but they also give donated goods to people who cannot afford to even buy in their stores. I would expect that someone unable to buy furniture even in one of their stores, would be very happy with a table that has a small discoloration.


Your expectation is inappropriate, and, some might think, insulting.
izzythepush
 
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Thu 25 May, 2017 12:59 am
@centrox,
Some people can't just give their rubbish away, they expect fawning adoration for doing so.

With all the time on their hands the homeless should put on a play or something celebrating those who give them their old crap.
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ossobucotemp
 
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Thu 25 May, 2017 01:03 am
@Linkat,
I have faint memories of dump stuff around west Los Angeles, pre Getty et al. I I think I was up there with my dad,
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Linkat
 
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Thu 25 May, 2017 04:55 am
@centrox,
centrox wrote:

Linkat wrote:
I understand that - but they also give donated goods to people who cannot afford to even buy in their stores. I would expect that someone unable to buy furniture even in one of their stores, would be very happy with a table that has a small discoloration.


Your expectation is inappropriate, and, some might think, insulting.


The thing that irked me is he stated they only take items that are in perfect condition. He didn't say good....he said it needs to be perfect. As someone stated here no one wants anything but new. That's fine I do not need to donate. I do it so an item gets used again rather than thrown away and it possibly helps another. It is easier for me to just throw it away.

The way I decide what goes in the trash rather than being donated is would I use it or would I wear it in a sense. I have never been refused a donation before.

It seems odd that a 50 year old professional would use an item and not deem it junk and some one just getting on their feet would look down their nose at receiving such an item.

We will just bring to the dump and leave in the swap area. Some one would likely snatch itbup. It is a shame to just throw things away. No wonder we have such an issue with trash and ruining the environment.
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saab
 
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Thu 25 May, 2017 05:34 am
I have not seen your table, so I do not want to judge why it was refused.
Personally I think it is strange.
I know there are charities, which do fix up things. It is also to get homeless and people out of work into a daily rutine.
Others fix things up themselves to use or to sell on a fleemarket.
So far I have not donated furniture - either they were dumped or sold. It was just that bed - because social services needed beds.

Normally I give to Oxfam and also buy there. I have bought books, handbags, coats and jackets. Slacks, t-shirts or blouses things to wear close to your body I never buy used. For me it is too intimate - yes I know it is washed.
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McGentrix
 
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Thu 25 May, 2017 06:07 am
I think you should look at a garage sale instead of charity. Sell it lower it someone appears indigent.

You have memories of the table when it was new. You have memories of all the dinners you had around that table. Of course you look at it and see all the good things that happened with that table.
Linkat
 
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Thu 25 May, 2017 07:45 am
@McGentrix,
McGentrix wrote:

I think you should look at a garage sale instead of charity. Sell it lower it someone appears indigent.

You have memories of the table when it was new. You have memories of all the dinners you had around that table. Of course you look at it and see all the good things that happened with that table.


We will more than likely bring it to the dump and put it in the swap area - that way if someone would like it - it would get another life - maybe sand it down to take the discoloration spot out. It is quality wood and except for the one chair with the tear the chairs have no tears/worn spots or stains. He was going to take the chairs but I thought it best to keep the set together just in case someone would like an entire set.

We might reach out to a couple of other charities and see if they would like the table (maybe take a picture so they know it isn't perfect) - maybe another charity isn't looking for perfection.
ehBeth
 
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Thu 25 May, 2017 09:55 am
@centrox,
centrox wrote:
My parents in the 1950s and 60s had one which had drawers as well as doors, the door part had plates and cups, the drawers had cutlery, and on top was a vase of flowers and bottles of booze. I quite like them but nobody seems to want them in their homes any more.


they are HUGE now - esp if they are 50's / 60's and blindingly so if they're teak

MCM (mid-century modern), people in the UK are desperate for them and pay nutty amounts to have them shipped over
izzythepush
 
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Thu 25 May, 2017 09:59 am
@ehBeth,
Centrox lives in the UK.
ehBeth
 
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Thu 25 May, 2017 10:06 am
@izzythepush,
yes. i know that.
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centrox
 
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Thu 25 May, 2017 11:03 am
@ehBeth,
ehBeth wrote:
MCM (mid-century modern), people in the UK are desperate for them and pay nutty amounts to have them shipped over

I'm talking about working-class people on welfare who live in municipal apartment blocks.
PUNKEY
 
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Thu 25 May, 2017 12:29 pm
Maybe you called the wrong charity.

We have Furniture Resource groups that do set up apts. and homes for people who have absolutely nothing. So your small stain on the top could have been covered and/or painted.

My friend looks for items like yours and re-furbishes it into Shabby Chic stuff.



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Mame
 
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Fri 26 May, 2017 07:03 pm
@centrox,
Ever heard of a "tablecloth"? If the table was in good condition and of good quality wood, they could stain it, paint it or cover it. Beggars really can't be choosers, sorry to disagree with you. If they want new, go to a STORE. Sally Ann and all the other thrift places seldom, if ever, have new products. And I speak from experience, being a single teen mother at one time - I certainly never bought new and would refurbish old furniture bought cheaply. All I wanted was reliable and affordable. Being creative made it over into something I liked and cared for.
Mame
 
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Fri 26 May, 2017 07:05 pm
@Linkat,
Put it on Kijiji or Craigslist for free, or in your alley or back yard with a sign: Free. It'll be gone in no time and you don't have to haul it anywhere.
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ehBeth
 
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Fri 26 May, 2017 07:13 pm
@centrox,
centrox wrote:

I'm talking about working-class people on welfare who live in municipal apartment blocks.


hunh

that's a bit different from "nobody"
roger
 
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Fri 26 May, 2017 08:00 pm
@Mame,
Mame! Good to know you're still with us.
maxdancona
 
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Fri 26 May, 2017 08:36 pm
@Linkat,
Isn't that what Craigslist is for?

Charities incur a cost when they pick up and store furniture that they aren't going to sell. It makes sense for them to refuse to take these items.
centrox
 
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Fri 26 May, 2017 11:14 pm
@ehBeth,
ehBeth wrote:

centrox wrote:

I'm talking about working-class people on welfare who live in municipal apartment blocks.


hunh

that's a bit different from "nobody"

Well, yes, you're right, I was using language lazily. I meant "Nobody who came to our warehouse to get furniture".
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