@newmoonnewmoon,
newmoonnewmoon wrote:
Should i show love should i be ignorant in return etc etc
Returning the bad attitude will only make it worse. "What can't be cured must be endured" is my motto for situations like that. Cure the effect on yourself by avoiding the person as much as possible, then if you still have to see them sometimes, be unfailingly polite (this can help you feel better) and finally resolve to endure what bad feelings in you that are left. Long term, change your life situation. This may be difficult if it is a partner, spouse, or family member.