littlek wrote:I can't figure out this guy's deal. Does he like me? Does he not? Should I ask him out for a drink? Or would that be unkosher because he works with my sister?
I met a girl while I was in college... we flirted with each other for awhile and one day she said "Hey a couple of friends and I are going out this friday... do you want to come along?" I said "Yes. What time should I be there?"
Well I show up and low and behold there she is with
none of her friends to be found. She came up with some lame excuse as to why they couldn't show up but I knew she had planned this the whole time. I didn't mind... I liked her. So much in fact I married her.
I think you could pull the same thing here. You could even have your sister show up for awhile and then leave... leaving the two of you together.
I say go for it.