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Sun 14 May, 2017 10:38 am
I know the rule about getting involved with straight girls, but it happened, we fell in love and have been together 90% of the past 7 months.. we are both in our early thirties so it's not like this is some teenage phase for her. In the beginning she had a really strong drive for sex with me but as time has passed she's dwindled away to not having any desire to have sex with me. She is worried about disappointing me and I think she is just over thinking it. We are great together, trying not to be cringe but I would say we have the perfect relationship, and we aren't prepared to let this one issue ruin us. But we don't know how to fix it... Please help!
@Ribena123,
Has she lost interest in sex or sex with you? when did she last have a full medical check-up? it is possible that she is in perimenopause and may need some hormone adjustment.
It is also possible that she simply isn't interested in sex with you any more. Are you ok with her having sex with other people while maintaining a relationship with you?
@ehBeth,
@ehbeth thank you for your reply! She said she's not interested in sex with others but that could be just because she's in love with me, so doesn't see anyone else in "that" way, if that makes sense. She is only 31 with healthy periods so I really don't think it would be the perimenopause thing... And neither of us are interested in an open relationship, mainly because we could never imagine being interested in other people!
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