@Dzokson,
Dzokson wrote:
Im seeing a very hot girl every day in school. she sometimes checks me and because i really like her il man the **** up and approach.
but she has 3-4 friends is quiet (even if she is talking, btw she doesnt talk much) and i dont know would she like to be approached and bored with another guy that likes her (i know that she would not care about my approach if she likes me but i aint sure) should i die alone, or meet a girl that would probably reject me if i ask her on a date
Being rejected is better than never trying. It shouldn't be about life or death. She is just a girl, talk to her, have fun. Quit building her up because that's what makes you nervous. Be friendly, funny, spontaneous and fun.
If she's with friends, entertain her friends too. Women like when they see a guy they like treating her friends good, making them laugh and enjoy themselves. Its a good quality.
Dont be afraid if rejection, there is no reason to be afraid. Its not like she's you only chance at love.
When I want to get to know someone better, I pretend as if I am already their friend, tease and joke with them. Tell stories, ask questions about them, use what they say to bounce off jokes, humor or similar stories.
Push yourself but tell your self so what, no big deal if they don't like me, I'm just going to talk to them to make them laugh.
It only seem awkward because you are building it up in your mind that way. Stop, let it all go and just be in the moment having fun, that's it.