@Jfbcoach,
God, she's clingy.
Protip: don't work with people you date.
But now you're kind of stuck, particularly as it is a good company and you should not be forced to move. So, what to do? Maybe sit down with her at home and just tell her, "Look, I am courteous to the people I work with because it's a nice thing to do but it is also the way a person keeps a good job and the job stays pleasant."
If she continues to complain, refer her back to this conversation, repeatedly if necessary.