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Hey,

Just hoping to get advice on this situation.

I went out on a date with a girl recently. There wasnt a whole lot of chemistry, but both having a good time. At some point I kissed her and she pulled away after a few seconds. When dropping her off I decided to ask her out again. When she got out I leaned to hug her and she awkwardly moved to kiss me, but it seemed like she didnt really want to.

The day before we were suppose to meet again, she said she wanted to go out with friends. I didn't respond to her text or get angry.

Fast forward a few days and she sends me a topless pic from behind in funny situation. Had a few laughs about it. Next day she texts something about going on a date with some guy she didnt like, just because he had a cool car.

I see her with a guy a few days later on FB, and like the pic. Shortly after she send me a page long text me telling that her friend from that FB pic tried to make a move on her, and that she was mad because she thinks it'll ruin their friendship.

I normally would probably move on, but I am in a 98% male program and am dedicated to my studies, so options are not plentiful lately. I should also mention that both me and this girl know that neither of us are interested in a relationship in general, but are open to FWB.

If anyone has some advice, I'd appreciate it.

Thanks

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@tniz1987,

Reason #467,000 why I hate FWB.

Because nobody ever knows what page they are supposed to be on.

So! Have a conversation. Not a text. Pick up the phone and go visit or have coffee if you can do so in a fairly secluded and private environment and discuss your expectations.

Be kind. If all you want to do is have a physical relationship, please have the decency to at least be nice about it. And just saying, "All I want to do is **** you." is not a nice way of going about it. Not saying you, personally, would do that, but there are people who would.

Ask what you two are. Dating buddies? More? Good friends? I gotta say, I think she's trying to hint to you that she feels about you what she does about that other guy in that big long text she sent you.

Also, for your own sanity, tell her while you appreciate her friendship, you really don't want to hear about her in-depth problems with other guys. Because even if all you want to do is screw (and get yourself into a situation where you can do so), you still don't need to see that stuff.

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@tniz1987,

Tniz, apparent newcomer w/no profile I wonder if you might tell us something about urself

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