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Tue 24 Jan, 2017 12:34 am
part 1::We were in same class ...i started loving her..she was knowing that ...but she was the most popular girl in college ,talented,live performer,energetic,from gud family,always between boys ...and I was quite type of boy .....i proposed her after 2 yrs ...and many boys proposed her in a month ...So, it was common fr her ...she easily told me No....
so,still she was knowing that I Lv her ...and clg ends..
part 2:: i came fr study outoff station ...so ,i started msg ing her....msg got bigger and bigger ...sharing ,trusting ,each thing ...personal also that she was not sharing with other ...
but don't know she started irritating ..and stop talking frankly...msg got smaller...all got disturbed..
part3::: we again start talking,sharing,daily but lesser than part1 .This is latest situation...but as a friend only even though she know I Lv her and each day we once talk that...and always same ans i don't Lv u ...
(But 100% i know that she don't hv boyfriend).
But why she then talk with me ,why we fight like jungles and within a min start talking laughing like nothing has happen,why she send smile emoji when I complement her beauty and talent..,when she is nervous ,crying ,angry ,etc why she 1st remember me ...
yesterday only she told me that ,don't waste time on me , go ahead and choose another girl .....
still we are talking as always ...
But ,i feels somewhere i am there in her heart majorly but not sometime ..
(till date ...4 yrs completed )
so ,what u get from this ..and what I must do
After FOUR years you two should be more honest with each other.
You need to ask her why she keeps running back to you when she gets upset, anxious, etc.
You need to tell her that you want to be more than friends.
She needs to tell you if she has feelings for you or she just needs you when things get rough.
You sound like you are tired of being used.
All this time and you have not found another GF?
Maybe you should try and go out with another girl. What do you think? Is there someone else that you could consider?
@sajd,
Do you actually date or is this an online friendship?
If you do date, how is that going? how often do you go out?
@Olivier5,
I Can't think of another girl ...
Main thing she is sure that ,i will not love another girl and she is the only 1 whom I love ...and it is true
@ehBeth,
We were in sm class ...after that I went to study out of station ..as soon as I came unfortunately she also went to same clg were i went for study(out of station)...
So,situation didn't gv us
chance