@NeleGita,
Everybody creates their own world by the choices we make. When driving a car, you have four choices. You can go straight, turn left, turn right, or stop. When we decide to attend college, it's to reach some kind of goal - to go straight. During our life choices, we can do almost anything we wish to do. If you stop believing in your thoughts, you have stopped living.
But, I don't think that's what you mean. All of us take a detour some time in our life. Detours are okay, because it may reveal something of ourselves that can lead to important decisions for our future.
I think I was at one of those junctures in my life after I graduated from high school. I didn't have any plans for the future, and bummed around for a couple of years before I volunteered into the USAF. That was a good decision, although I didn't know it at the time. It was to get a job and some sort of training in the military, but more importantly, to have three squares and a place to sleep every night.
The military built up my confidence, and motivation to do better after I got discharged.
Eventually earned my college degree, and even retired early.