He is married and I want to know if he likes me??

Confused91 said:
I am a married female and I have a crush on my male married friend. We are both religious and he knows a fair bit about me because of his church position. We see each other a couple times a week in a social setting, (at church and at basketball.)
I want to know if he likes me? This is how he treats and acts around me.
I have notice that he is always looking at me, he tries to hide it and always looks at me when I'm busy doing something else, but I'll catch him looking over at me.
He full body checks me out, often.
We sometimes lock eyes, on occasion which seems really lustful.
The other thing I have noticed is that he doesn't check other women out. I've been watching him at basketball events where there are a lot of women around and he does nothing, doesn't even notice them that way.
He also seems super nervous around me and a bit fidgety. He only talks to me a bit in person and through text and he will always reply back straight away even if he is at work.
At the moment he is really hot and cold, sometimes he comes over and talks to me and sometimes he seems to be purposely avoiding me like he doesn't want to be close to me.
He also treats me differently to all his other female friends that are all married.
Also in social settings he acts weird, for example, it's seems like he wants to look at me, but because we are surrounded by our other religious friends he tries his hardest not to look at me, but does when he thinks no one is looking. If that makes sense. Like he doesn't want to be caught out.
He also started off never giving me a lift home but now he is the first to offer me a ride home. My home isn't that far away, really I could walk there in 5mins but he always offers.
They are just little things but he just seems really different around me and it seems like he likes me but because of our religion and doing the right thing he is just all over the place with the way he treats me.
At the end of the day I just really want to be friends with him because we get along so well but I feel like his behaviour towards me is getting in the way, I have a little crush on him because he is pretty amazing but I just want him to be honest with me. I don't think it's wrong to have a little crush and be close friends, but I feel like he must think that it's super wrong to like someone other then his wife.
I don't know, can anyone give me advice and do you think he does like me.