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Wed 16 Nov, 2016 11:13 am
There is a boy in my child's class who is particularly badly behaved. He purposefully physically hurts other children and is quite problematic. He has been like this since he started school, he is now 7 years old.
However, today in class his teacher asked the whole cclass if anybody likes him. Nobody put their hands up. She then asked the boy how he felt about that and he said that he is sad that nobody likes him. My daughter thinks that the teacher did that so that the boy could understand that if he hits people he won't have any friends.
I am very concerned about the teacher's method. Maybe it's a last resort because they have tried everything else with him. What do you think? I need opinions because I don't know if I should tell his Mother what happened. I have spoken to her a couple of times and I am almost positive that she will complain to the school. But is it the shock the boy needs to improve his behaviour?
@Mwall,
Wow Mw, that's a good q. I'd say it was a gudaidee but let's hear from the oppo
@dalehileman,
Thanks for your reply.
I really need opinions on this one. It seems a little inappropriate from a teacher. I think it's setting a bad example to the class to single him out like that. He must feel very alone.
However I might feel very differently about it if my child was been hurt by him.
@Mwall,
Why not talk to the teacher about it? this may have been something that came out of discussion with other school staff/counsellors.
It certainly sounds like the child needs some kind of intervention.
Your daughter may well have been correct about the teacher's intention.
@Mwall,
Mwall wrote:I need opinions because I don't know if I should tell his Mother what happened.
I don't think this is the best place to start with it.
Talk to the teacher or principal first.
@ehBeth,
Thank you for your advice. The more I think about it the less confident I am about approaching his Mother. Then, on the other hand, I would want to know if my child was been singled out like that in class.
However I probably shouldn't say anything to her.........
@Mwall,
She may already know. It could be on an IEP.
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Talk to the teacher/principal.