Should I ask for divorce? Read and tell me!

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My husband and I are living in separate houses has 4 years. We had to move to from oir city to a bigger city where we could find more resources to help our autistic son. When we decided to move he promised that he would be have to stay more time in our hometown because of our business, he needed to organized everything and then move the company. It Is being 4 years now. He moved his shop from the address it was but signed a lease to stay there for more 2 years. Our relationship is not the same anymore. I first was mad, sad and depressed living separated lives. I feel like I am a single mom. Specially when you have a special need child, and a very sensitive little girl that misses her father so much. Our kids misses him, they expect daddy home, even though is being 4 years, they still have this anxiety ehen their dad comes home for the weekend.
Between me and him, i have no idea what goes through his mind and he is a very quiet man, dont like to talk, he can be a little cold, and have no patience for our kids. In some ways I think he is used to not have them around and whennhe comes home he has no idea how to deal with them. Our kids still young and I keep think what the heck they will fae in the future in a relationship, what kind of relationship they will have. The insecurities.
Myself is in the end of the rope. I dont knownwhat to do. I think my relationship is gone and neither of us wanna put an end to it. We are married have 8 years and have 4 we live this way. Our kids are 8 and 6.
Wish they could have more of a normal life.
Beside all of that, here is our relationship:
If I dont call him, he can pass all day without one phone call or antext message.
Every night he call the kids, my son is very methodic about time and routine so he waits by the phone for his dad to call, his dad call and they talk and then my son pass the phone to his little sister, and then they hang up. Not once he ask to talk to me.
Right now is 10pm, you would think I would have a text message at least saying goodnight, but I dont.
I took him with me for counsellig, and I express all my frustration, and how Infeel ignored, small, no good. Then he was the best husband ever for 20 days, called me everyday, texts messages at night or a call, then he went back to thenold same old.
I tey to make things bettrr in the intimacy, started work out, I am youger then him 11 years and I am 35 eith a very fit body, younwould think he would have more care, more attention, but no, not him.
When he comes home, he stay in in his office. If we are watching tv, he is in his phone.
Fml... Inhate all of this. Hate my life.
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