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Sun 30 Oct, 2016 02:54 pm
hi guys, need some advice here urgently!! recently theres this guy who started chatting with me (that from th start i do not know of @ all, no common friends & never heard of also) we've been chatting for abt 1.5 weeks & since day 1-2 he's been telling me that i should hang out w him & has been asking me out for dinner or lunch because he's "craving" for a particular food & ive rejecting till i no longer could because there was no more excuses i can come up with. so anyway i decided to just meet him because he still cont. asking me out thus i tot to get it over & done with. we met up @ a mall & he suggested to have dinner & catch a movie together altho i very much didnt want to, i did. so it was somehow awkward since it was the first time meeting so after dinner when we went into the cinema, he kept turning to look @ me literally every 10mins of the movie which annoyed me and would then open his mouth hinting me to feed him popcorns which really pissed me off because before the movie i told him that ive an ex that was together with me for 3 years & im not planning to have a new guy at all so why is he doing these. so after the movie ended i just wanted to get home and block him lol cause i wouldn't go out with him again but he said he would walk me home and while walking me home he kept trying to hold my hand which i pushed him away a few times but he still did, before he left he started to hold my waist then push me in for a hug. it annoyed the **** out of me really because 1st it was just the first time meeting 2nd he knew clearly that me & my ex still loved each other just that we're not talking 3rd he still said he wants to go on a date with me 4th he holds my hand without my liking, what should i do? omg, how do i turn him down if he holds my hand or gets intimate with me again
@abryxo,
Block him on social media and don't give him another thought. You don't need to justify your displeasure to someone who doesn't listening to a word your saying or respecting your clear rejections.
Though I can only go on what you've written, it seems that what you need help with is asserting yourself. Some people, like this guy, need you to be blunt perhaps to the point of being rude. Don't give them any mixed messages. That means you never should've accepted a date with him and when you were together you should've let him hold your hand. The message that you gave him apparently was encouraging enough to keep him feeling like there was a chance.
However, to get rid of him, block him on all social media and don't take his phone calls. He'll give up after a while. Just say no.
@Ragman,
Quote: That means you never should've accepted a date with him but when you were together you should've let him hold your hand.
Sorry for the confusion but that should have read "should NOT have let him hold your hand."
WHY did you say yes when you meant NO?
Girls who can't express themselves can get into trouble, real easily.
TELL him you are not interested in any kind of relationship. Introduce him to a friend you think he might like, and vice-versa.
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