Desire, for love.

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I was in a 3 year relationship that I decided to end, because I felt he didnt love me the same. He has a son for his past x ..I felt by his actions that hes nnever stopped loving her. But they consultantly argue. Once he was drinking and called her on my phone and in my house. He told her he didnt love me, that he loved her.. He appoligized for that after..from then on I knew. It went down hill from there.. Finally I broke it off but he didnt want to. He said he wanted us to be together. For the next three years we dated different people, but still hung out together. .. Now we spend almost everynight together.. We have lots in common and enjoy eachother and both agreed that no one will come betwen us.m, but he wants us to be best friends. He said he dont see me that way anymore and looks to date others. I love him so much i Dont want to date anyone else. However he dont like seeing anyone flirt with me. An acquaintance once flirted with me and he told him not to flirt with me cause im still his qoman! My question is," Can the desire that once was, return! I know he did love me at one point, but it seems a big part of him loves her!

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@AbbyD,

I know this doesn't answer your question totally. But, when you allow someone to take from you constantly, they will always continue to take as they know that they can.

3 years apart and yet, still together "hanging out", yet he has clearly told you, you are FWB's, nothing more. And, then he ensures he continues to have you where he wants by letting you know clearly, that you can not date anyone else.

My question to you is, what is it you love about him? Because, what ever it is, it's there somewhere else and you won't be disrespected or disrespect yourself any further.

I don't think most men sleeping with someone likes to loose. But does that mean that you just "hang about" for another 10 years for nothing?

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@FOUND SOUL,

Thank you for replying.. Hes been there for me when no one else was. He always makes sure im ok. We are both single now and spends almost every night together. I see when he looks at me that me does love me. He hasnt been with anyone since we been hanging out more now that were single.

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@FOUND SOUL,

Thank you for replying.. Hes been there for me when no one else was. He always makes sure im ok, and ive always been there for him..His last gf had a issue with us being so close. We are both single now and spends almost every night together. We have alot in common and alot of history. He makes me laugh as i do him. We are like soul mates I see when he looks at me that me does love me. He hasnt been with anyone since we been hanging out more now that were single.

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Found Soul gave you sound advice, but you're not willing to listen.

Are you simply waiting for someone here to agree with you?

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@chai2,

I felt that denial!

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@FOUND SOUL,

The denial force is strong in this one

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@AbbyD,

What is your question?

You have already made up your mind that you love this man and defend his actions.

So . . . why do you doubt your decision? Why did you post here?

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@PUNKEY,

Since ive posted this. We had a long talk. He doesnt want anyone else, he was scared of getting hurt again and think I deserve someone who can give me the best. (He middle-class) .. After a heart to heart talk. We are together now and been inseparable since. Thanks for the advice and reply everyone. Take care. Peace to all.

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