Reply
Sun 2 Oct, 2016 10:39 pm
Maybe our 7months of relationship are going to break now because of his Family. His family is against me because I am not from their community. But he & i are belongs to same religion. But His Family members doesn't want Their Daughter-in-law from another community.
When our relationship was only 2 months we had faced this problem. & we both talked about it with each other. That time he says he had realized that he can't live without me & ask me to study well so we can have a future. & says that you need not worry about that. You just focus on you study please !!!
But after 7months of our relationship....
Just Recently his father passed away & for that he had to go home. & now he is asking me if i really love him a lot or not...? After getting my answer..he also said that he loves me lot (which i didn't ask) & if he failed to marry me in future ?? Because he says that his Family members torturing him saying that I am from another community & they never gonna Accept a girl from another community.........Ok i understand !!!
If He have such a lot of problem then instead of asking me if i really love him a lot or not, why doesn't he just break up with me ??
I Really don't know how to react in this situation.... totally helpless !!!!
Break the relationship (or threaten to do so) and see if he tries to make you change your mind.
Your BF needs to decide if YOU are more important than his family insisting that you be from a certain "community" (What does that mean, anyway?)
Yes - break up with him so you can see how important you are to him.
@Ankita31,
Does he study? Does he have goals? He almost demands that you focus on studying before considering love. But then wants to know if you love him. I am not sure if talking to his family at a time they are grieving is effective. If your study gave you qualifications that could provide a great income for all, will they change their mind of you? I just didn't read. Study for yourself
@Ankita31,
i think he asked you that because he was suffering a lot of pressure from his family and needed to be reassure what he was fighting her family for was worth it. you should try to put yourself in his shoes: he´s risking losing his family for you and he´s afraid you don´t love him back that much... instead of thinking about yourself, you should appreciate what he´s going through for you and show him how much you love him instead.... many people will yield to pressure and break up with you... he´s fighting his entire family to keep you by his side
Stumble It!
Tweet This
Bookmark on Delicious
Share on Facebook
Share on MySpace