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Thu 22 Sep, 2016 01:32 am
Hi, the story goes like this, we were in a very loving relationship for a year, we were suitable for eachother..
She told me she wants to go abroad with her friend(female) for 2months I said ofcurse, she aaked if I'll wait for her and again ofcurse.
2 weeks before she's supposed to return she told me she wants to stay there to find herself be alone and what not she said it was her dream, for 4 months, that came out of no where.. I thought about it for a few days, called her told her I'm okay with her decision, that I fully support her and I hope she will find herself.. she cried told me she loves me and stuff and we eventually broke up.. I miss her so much it happened a few days ago
I talk to other women and I think about her, what can I do..
Should I wait for her without her knowing? How can I get her back.
What do I do when she returns?
She owed you more of an explanation, especially since she asked you to wait for her while she went on vacation.
How old are you two?
@Themightyeric,
FWIW:
She sounds like someone who likes the drama of relationships in crisis and breaking up.
Stretching it out just prolongs the pleasure.
Wait for the inevitable and sudden 'end' without an explanation.
If it goes that way, run, and don't go back for a second round.
@Themightyeric,
It's only been a few days. Let the matter rest for now.
Go on with your life as I hope you've been doing for the last few months.
@Themightyeric,
How can you get her back might be a question I'd ask MYSELF, too. She seems to wanto explore the world a bit so you must understand that you are not the 'problem' as there was not an issue that she has with you, per se.
If she assures you that there was nothing wrong in the relationship, then believe what she says. She's an independent person and she needs to spread.her wings. When she come does back, and with her feeling your support, maybe things can continue again - perhaps with even more energy than before . Whatever way it goes, it's in both of your best interest to be supportive of each other's feelings and let her know she has the freedom of choice as you're not interested in being a controlling partner.
Others here are taking a far more negative interpretation than I have. I'm not sure why so perhaps you can provide more insight and quell the skepticism they're expressing. I, for one, am not seeing it that way based on the details you've supplied so far.
We were planning to go abroad to australia..
Her friend she went with, had a thing with her boyfriend, they went to a trip together, after they returned her boyfriend broke up with her and went alone to another trip.. what I think she is blinded by all the good around, and her friend influenced her even more cause of what happened..
Its really hard to cope with the pain I want her back..
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