@jespah,
The op tells us 'she is 'upset", not ill.
"Softener" NEVER use, btw (another story) does actually 'soften', by coating your clothes' fibres (Thus you) with a bisphenolised substance (Check BPA (Bisphenol A)) which, along with linen softening (De-fluffyfying), happens to generate death by virtually everything.