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Sat 14 Nov, 2015 08:33 pm
Okay so I few nights ago I brought a guy back to mine after a drunken night out and even though I'm 99.9% sure we didn't have sex, if can't stop worrying about it. I sobered up by the time we got home and I remember telling him that I didn't want to have sex and I'm pretty sure he got himself off when I went to sleep. I was so worried that I took the morning after pill the next day. Am
I being really stupid to worry over this?
@Emmalori,
Did you ask him if you had intercourse?
That would be the best thing to do.
@Emmalori,
Should we say the obvious? You should avoid drunken nights out in the future.
#1, I think you were smart to take the morning after pill if you weren't completely sure. Kudos to you for being proactive about it, and not just walking around worried.
#2, I'd be concerned that I was having black outs while drinking. If you don't know for sure if you had sex or not due to your drinking, that's a bad sign.
BTW, there are always going to be people out there who tell you that you are paranoid. I've found those are ususally people who either have something to gain by convincing you to think it's all in your head, or who aren't in the position to tell you anything.
@chai2,
Bill Cosby , I believe, had an MO similar to this.
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