@edgarblythe,
I'm not entirely sure that I understand the purpose of this thread, but I notice the youtube labeled "send in the clowns".
That reminded me of a NPR radio piece I heard more than 10 years ago (I think). It was about Very Bad Ideas for wedding music (meaning songs that people sometimes want to play at their wedding because they think they are beautiful and romantic, but they really really shouldn't).
This "send in the clowns" song was mentioned as something that should never be played when the bride walks down the aisle.