@Tsukikochi,
This is going to seem rough, but I think it's accurate.
Translation of his note:
Quote:I've loved you in a partially romantic way when we have had sex, but it's become clear to me that you may really love me and since I have a conscious, I'm feeling bad that I might be leading you on. I don't want to hurt you and I would like to preserve the possibility that we can have sex the next time we see each other, but our relationship is not what you want it to be and never will be. I am very fond of you, but I don't love you in the way you want me to. I would prefer it if our relationship could be very good friends with priveleges, but I don't think you do. I'm laying this all out in the best way I can so that if the relationship continues I won't feel guilty that it was under false pretenses. Oh, and I feel very uncomfortable when you tell me you love me and expect me to say the same thing to you.
The guy's trying to do the right thing while preserving the possibility of having sex. He's trying to give you the chance to understand and accept the limitations he wants to set on the relationship, although it's pretty clear that he doesn't expect that you will. It also seems clear that he
does care about you and doesn't want to hurt you, but whether he can't bring himself to completely breaki it off for concern about your feelings or to keep the possibility of a casual "love affair" alive, underneath it all he knows he should.
If you want something more from this relationship than he is offering, you should end it. It's not going to grow into something else. If you're OK with the sort of casual, romance-lite version he's suggesting then it can only work if you have no expectations for anything more, and are open to new relationships with men who are more inclined towards commitment, at which time you will have to end it.
Based solely on what you've written, I think you need to end it and re-enter the world of meeting other men who can and will love you in a way that isn't hard to understand, and doesn't need a few hundred words to explain.
All the best.