@luismtzzz,
luismtzzz wrote:
I mean how important is commitment for a marriage. I think it is a big deal. There's nothing more difficult than to keep a stable and exclusive reality with another human been. If it is difficult to do so with our own keen. To keep it with an stranger seems almost like insanity. But even tough many people achieve this and are married for decades.
People define commitment differently. For a relationship to succeed ,it is important for the parties involved to agree on values, and respect mutually established boundaries. As long as there is no deceit, there is no wrongdoing. Some people prefer mutual exclusivity and others don't. For instance, a polygamist shares emotional and physical intimacy with more than one spouse. But, all enter the relationship with knowledge of that fact.