To all men who read this!

What she has in her mouth? What the heck are you talking about? Does she overeat? Drink to excess? Smoke? Say nasty things? Crack chewing gum?

You post was a bit confusing as to exactly what you are talking about, but since am a man and you did ask one specific question, I will attempt to answer.

On one level, your friend is correct. Her life is her own and how she lives her life has nothing to do with anyone else. That is not to say the way she lives does not affect those around her, because it can and does. But it is still her life to live.

If you (or anyone else) find that she is impacting you too negatively, then for your own sake you would need to distance yourself from her.

Hope this helps.

I was not planing to post this. Accidentally it is gone sorry for the inconvenience, it is bit annoying that no one can delete a post here on this damn site.

She means that she feels that she should live her life to her own benefit - not for others.

That's a great idea - except other people DO get in the way of this selfishness - like children, jobs, relatives, health, etc.

PS - Is there a reason why you asked MEN only about this?